At present, sex lacks a lot for many women. This is not because women are under-sexed, as those very women who miss out on full sexual pleasure during intercourse are usually able to enjoy sexual pleasure by masturbating. It is because many women do not say what they want sexually and many men are too embarrassed, or too insensitive, to find out.
How can you become a better lover? Well, there are the sex manuals. Unfortunately, they are mainly written by men, who have not had the opportunity to know what women really want. In the U.S.A. there are over fifty sex manuals in circulation, and twelve of them claim to have each sold over one million copies. Most of them are also available in other English-speaking countries.
Perhaps because they are written by Americans who seem to be devoted to the ethic of work, competition, and success, you will learn that to succeed in sex you need to prepare seriously for it and work at it. It is not a frivolous subject, but one deserving serious concentration, arduous preparation, and a good deal of effort. The manuals suggest that sex is mainly a task for young, healthy, beautiful people, because you are cautioned that some of the ’sexercises’ are not suitable (too arduous, perhaps) for older people.
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